>>317 I was totally nervous when we had that talk but he didn't judge me at all! hubby hooked up with a few older women before we met. one of them was 56 and became his sugar mamma for a while. he showed me who she was. she's an objectively gorgeous woman and he was honest with me about their relationship and that they had cared about each other in an admiring sort of way. they had unprotected sex all the time, role played, did light bdsm and exotic positions. she taught him all the ways to get a woman off. he basically lived with her half the time because they were always having sex. so he was slutty in his past too ๐คฃ I actually ran into her at target during my first pregnancy. she recognized me immediately and tried to slip away but I introduced myself. she was super nervous but sweet and spoke highly of hubby and said I must be really special to catch him. I joked that I owed her a thank you for making him such a good lover and that lightened things up. we talked for a few more minutes and she was genuinely happy for us, even joked that if I ever needed a break she'd obviously be happy to take hubby off my hands for a night so I wouldn't have to worry about him knocking up another woman. he about had a heart attack when I got home and told him I ran into her though ๐